Happy 1 Month of Freedom!
On July 16th of 2017 I got married to a man named Jp.
On December 16th, 2021, we finalized our divorce.
Today is January 16th of 2022 and it's one month since we signed the papers and were officially free of each other and I haven't even looked back once! I can now see what I used to lie to myself and come up with excuses and make justifications for.
On 8.21.2021 I started dating a wonderful man named Chris. He's loved me in ways I've only ever dreamed about and loved my children before loving me.
We celebrate five months on the 21st of January, and I couldn't be happier. Now on to bigger, better, and amazing things now that I'm not legally tied down under the name of another. Yes, I did keep his last name due to children and the number of questions to save myself in the end when children get older. Although at this point in my time I'm very much against getting married because I'm tired of the hurt and the heartbreak the children go through. **Don't get me wrong will I be a little heartbroken that if my boyfriend and I have a child it won't have anything besides DNA to tie me to them because I doubt whole heartedly, he'd want to attach my current last name. Especially since I have my ex-husbands last name. Yes, after each divorce I kept the name. For my own personal reasons.
But HAPPY ONE MONTH OF FREEDOM TO ME AND HAPPY I AM NOT MARRIED ANYMORE!
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